Guess what, your average millennial knows as much about dating as an average person of previous generations, which is basically nothing.
Best Generation guys like to say that they have all the knowledge. Baby boomers think the Best Generation is too old school. Gen Y thinks Millennials are a bunch of wusses. What's the deal?
Truth is no one knows anything, but everyone thinks they do. Relationships, dating, it's all challenging. And it has been for time immemorial. Everything from shyness to cockiness has been around. People are people and always have been.
Why is it that older generations always claim romantic knowledge? Well, part of it is life experience, which warrants certain bragging rights. But a big part is agist braggadocio. As someone with general reverence for older people, I let them have their fill. And when they want to impart knowledge about dating, I generally listen. Why not? At the very least, you're likely to get a good story or two. I've found there's wisdom, more often than not.
Whether you are trying to figure out if your current partner
is the right one for you or you are just crushing on someone new, there are
several signs that you will tell you if you have a romantic chemistry with that
person. Although a relationship is so much more than a simple chemistry, this
is definitely an important aspect that you cannot take for granted. It will
tell if you two “click” and how comfortable you feel whenever you are together.
For those who are not yet sure to where they stand with their special someone,
here are several clear signs that will let you spot that undeniable chemistry, even if you meet on adult phone chat.
It’s All In the Eyes
If you look that special someone in the eyes, you will feel
something that will tell you right away that things are mutual. You don’t feel
any awkwardness when you stare at them even for a long time, to the point that you
will want to spend the rest of your life simply gazing to each other’s eyes.
This connection can be so strong that verbal acknowledgement is no longer
needed because the two of you know that it exists.
Comfortable Silence
There are always those conversations that tend to drift off
to silence which can sometimes make you panic. Does the other person feel bored
when you are around? Can you see signs that he or she would rather wish that
you go away? The ability to share a comfortable silence is among the best signs
that there is romantic chemistry between you and another person. You just feel
happy being with them even if no word is spoken and you know that the person
feels the same way.
Touches are So
Natural
When someone you don’t like touches or attempts to touch
you, you know it right away because you want it to stop. But, if it someone you
have chemistry with merely brushes against you or the two of you sit together
with your elbows touching, you don’t notice and you don’t feel any discomfort.
It can feel so natural and there is no big surprise there. The touch feels so
right.
It Just Feels Like Forever
Although romantic chemistry usually develops in time, this
can also show itself right there and then the moment you meet someone new. When
you are talking to a person for the very first time and it already feels like
you have known him or her forever, you know that there is definitely something
so special that is just too hard to ignore. Even if you do not really know so
much about that someone, it feels like you know them so much better than how
they know themselves.
The moment you meet that special someone whom you have a
romantic chemistry with, you will never want to let them go. You just feel
comfortable being around them and you are not afraid of being yourself because
you know that you are not inferior. It is a special and wondrous feeling that is
not that easy to find in this world.
The Fisher theory on human bonding provides great insight to romantic chemistry.
In short, the theory suggests that our romantic inclinations and tendencies are hardwired. This may seem obvious to anyone who has a basic understanding of evolutionary biology, but Fisher's particular insight is how norepinephrine and dopamine interact with one another to create "lust" and love.
Does dating anonymously sound like an oxymoron? Shouldn't you have to "put yourself out there" in order to meet someone?
Forget what you've heard. Phone dating is a way to meet people in your area, have hot adult conversations, and stay anonymous. If you're introverted and are having trouble meeting people, you really do need to try an adult phone chat service.
We know, adult phone chat companies have gotten a bad rap over the years, and some deservedly so. Many phone chat companies used to hide charges and not disclose all billing at the outset of a call. However, rest assured, most services have changed their ways and are completely up front. In fact, many offer new callers free trials.
You may be wondering what the difference between adult chat and phone sex is. The main difference is who you speak to - with adult chat, you speak to others singles in your area, and with phone sex, you usually speak to an operator who guides the call.
